ASMR: Things I’ve Learned While Transitioning 🏳️‍⚧️

thanks for listening, I've been in transition for 10 years and honestly wanna chat a lil about how i feel and what I've learned... usually i keep quiet about what I think and what I really believe so here is a little insight into my mind :D

I honestly love being transgender, of course it has its ups and downs just like alot of things in life but TBH I have learned alot, being patience and learning about yourself helps. Being transgender is SUCH a special experience, whilst we share the same journey, each journey looks different.

Dysphoria is horrible, it's the worst thing someone can have..... Being born and not having the matching outside is truly hell.... us trans people are SO strong. i love us and we are the best




RANDOM BONUS RANT:

I'm a realistic and use logic into my thinking, i try be practical and honest... I don't like to live in fake delusions that don't exist but also do not like to come across as mean or rude so it's hard to navigate.

Everyone online can twist or hear something else that you say and turn it into something completely different.... I try see through things in an honest upfront lens . Ok i have dysphoria got diagnosed so next step is transitioning to make myself feel better and live my authentic self... I've seen people use trans and as a fashion label or rather what they feel in that moment or time but to be quite honest that makes no sense to me.... Am i the asshole for thinking this way? or am i just using logic.... If there's no actual deep rooted reason for you to be transgender then i just don't really understand and its difficult to take it seriously....

I don't find it insulting or offensive if people say they are trans without dysphoria it just makes NO sense regardless of your reasoning, I'm not gate keeping being trans I'm using real logic and real reason why I think this way... anyway transgender isn't a fashion label or term to use just because, it's a real debilitating thing that causes so much stress....

ANyway at the end of the day you are allowed to do what you like and thats okay :)